🥰 I'm not gonna lie I'm a lover girl. And I love with everything I gat. But I've said this before, I don't understand the definition of love anymore because of the way people I've met made it seems too sad for me. But love is beautiful when you meet the right partner.
It is not a bad thing to be a lover girl. In fact, I think it's really good. Love wholeheartedly. However, the downside of loving wholeheartedly is that you'll most times get played. You would get played by the person you love the most, and it sucks ya'know
They have turned love into something else. Love is no more butterflies in people stomach, rather, it is now "money for bank account, back for bed." If you know what I mean. It's really crazy ya'know.
So it's driving me crazy. What happens to getting to know each other, and see if the chemistry is indeed there. Why do I have to give sth in return because you bought me gifts not because I want to willingly offer you my body. They are two different things.
I can't start going into details if not this place go full.😂😂 That was why I said i don't know what love means anymore.
It is very important to know somebody before you even start doing anything.. Unfortunately, some people don't think so.
The thing is, this mentality goes both ways. Some ladies expect a guy to start spending on them immediately they start dating.
As a result, the guy in turn begins to have diverse imaginations, most especially, sexual.
Hmmm you're right.
During a chat with a friend, he said relationship is nothing without intimacy. And I ask him if I just meet a guy and 3 days into the relationship he started asking us to be intimate, and I said no. Does it automatically means I don't love him or what.
And he said yes that if I love the guy I wouldn't resist.😣