Love hurts. Love heals. People like to be loved, and cared for. Relationships grow, relationships break. It's calm. What's your perspective of love, and relationships? Do you think it's a nice thing or do you think it'll always fail?
Relationship is good.
Love hurts.
Love heals too.
All we need to peace, comfort and love with the right person.
That's the most difficult thing to find, the right person.
People are imperfect. They make mistakes. Though they try to be perfect, however, with further tries to perfect themselves comes mistakes that they may regret
In the course of finding the right person, it is advisable that we ourselves become what we need in every person we are looking for. If we want a God fearing spouse, we ourselves need to be God-fearing.
If we want a caring spouse, then we need to be caring. It's easy and difficult at the same time
Love is a beautiful thing, and the right moment will come; as for the rest, you just have to go with the flow.
Huhm, this is so true.
And this "love" topic is a very deep one. But then, I would say it depends on the party involved and how they started out. That can most likely tell if it will work or fail. But the truth remains that, love is a beautiful thing.
How they started out also matters a lot. If a man started by always opening the door for his woman, she would be subconsciously wired to always expect that action from her man. Any day he don't do that, there may be problem.
Again, if a man starts giving his woman a thousand naira daily for up keep, she would me wired to always expect that stuff. And anytime he fails to keep up for a period of time, there would probably be a problem, depending on the understanding level of the woman.
Love and relationship is bitter-sweet as well as interesting. However, not everyone can afford to endure he bitterness of love and relationship
It's just best to be careful.Whatever thing you start with,better remain consistent with it😜.And like you said, the understanding level of the partner is also important.It can't be all rosy,when there's a change of hand,he/she should be mature enough to understand the situation.
True.. maturity is also very important. That's why it's good to be friends with someone for sometime before you ask them for a relationship
Some persons are children who lie about their age, while some are actually adults, but they have not passed through life to make them mature. They've not made mistakes, or seen life in a different aspect that's not nectar, flowers and sweet perfumes.
Yeah. Some just look matured physically, they aren't of age yet. And some like you said are just adults by age. They aren't matured and haven't seen life yet.
You nailed this. This is just sooo me. Ion rush things or rush up to ask a lady out. We start out as friends, there I know if I can or if I can't 😔
True.. it's never ideal to rush into a relationship. Slow and steady is ideal
Who am I to think love always fails when I've seen a number of relationships which makes me crave for atleast, something close to that?
Whether a relationship grows or breaks pretty much depends on the two individuals individuals involved.
Love don't always fails. Though social media has planted it in the subconscious of people that love sucks, and men are scum while women are hoes. They have made love and relationship looks transactional.
Transactional in the sense that a man's way of proving love is by spending money on his girl, while a woman's way of showing love is by giving different styles on bed. It's soo sad how it turned out, but then, this is the reality we live in.
Love and relationships are good, but then, from how things are going, it's really difficult to get that one humble spouse who would keep the teachings of social media aside, keep their pride aside and open up to love whole heartedly and be loved.
I know riiii
I know how that is given my personal interactions with my male friends as well as those of my gender and honestly, SMH!
Lol.. that's actually how it is. I didn't want to sugar quote it cause' that's literally the happenings in our world today.
I couldn't agree more. That's one downside of the media I'll always be bitter about 🤦🏼♀️
🥰 I'm not gonna lie I'm a lover girl. And I love with everything I gat. But I've said this before, I don't understand the definition of love anymore because of the way people I've met made it seems too sad for me. But love is beautiful when you meet the right partner.
It is not a bad thing to be a lover girl. In fact, I think it's really good. Love wholeheartedly. However, the downside of loving wholeheartedly is that you'll most times get played. You would get played by the person you love the most, and it sucks ya'know
They have turned love into something else. Love is no more butterflies in people stomach, rather, it is now "money for bank account, back for bed." If you know what I mean. It's really crazy ya'know.
So it's driving me crazy. What happens to getting to know each other, and see if the chemistry is indeed there. Why do I have to give sth in return because you bought me gifts not because I want to willingly offer you my body. They are two different things.
I can't start going into details if not this place go full.😂😂 That was why I said i don't know what love means anymore.
It is very important to know somebody before you even start doing anything.. Unfortunately, some people don't think so.
The thing is, this mentality goes both ways. Some ladies expect a guy to start spending on them immediately they start dating.
As a result, the guy in turn begins to have diverse imaginations, most especially, sexual.
Hmmm you're right.
During a chat with a friend, he said relationship is nothing without intimacy. And I ask him if I just meet a guy and 3 days into the relationship he started asking us to be intimate, and I said no. Does it automatically means I don't love him or what.
And he said yes that if I love the guy I wouldn't resist.😣