Coffee sounds lovely the way that you fix it. I love espresso made into a mocha, with a flavored syrup for sweetness, and a dollop of whipped cream on top.
I have become a fan of cold coffee, especially on hot days.
You have lots of willpower to not drink when your husband can't; I might be tempted to find a room or a place where it wouldn't affect him. You are kind.
Thank you for sharing and have a lovely day! !LADY
