There's no relationship that doesn't come with conditions. Even the Bible we so reverence, tells us that we need to believe in God and obey his commandments or be cast into the fires of hell.
How much more humans? People will always love you genuinely but something must give.
If you aren't behaving the way they think their loved ones should or you're not reciprocating their feelings, they will eventually let you go.
It doesn't mean they didn't love you genuinely. It just means that they have reached their limit and that is valid.
For me this I don't really understand this but if that's what you see it as then it's fine, I believe we all have our different approach to this kind of topic.
I get your points that even the Bible said we must obey god pay our tight love our neighbors like we love ourselves for us to be in good relationship with God
And I also understand to that we shouldn't even be friends with people who do not add value to our life in any way at all but they are specific people I'm talking about here
Yeah this kind of people that will meet in our life and all they want to do is take from you they want to take from you financially knowledge wise emotional support every other thing they are going to take from you but they are never there when you really need them
These are the kind of people that I mean even in the Bible when we go as three God doesn't just leave us he finds a way to bring us our redirect our hearts back to him of the heart of man is wicked they don't they just abandoned you.
Everything is transactional these days love is transactional friendship is transactional more reasons why I don't even bother keeping too many friends.
I only stick with those who genuinely care about me even when I have anything to offer them or when I don't have anything to offer them.