I mean, in life, you give, you take. That's just it. The only thing I just feel is that, you shouldn't be there for someone only when you can benefit from them, you should value them even when they don't have anything to offer. So do you still value them when they have nothing?
I love the question you asked at the end do you still value people when they don't have anything to offer you that is where genuine friendship kicks in.
In order just like people say love is transactional these days it looks like friendship is also transactional
I've had some friends that over time do you felt like I don't really if you get to know what this wants from me and that's made them distance themselves from me and I will always ask my felt what is the problem or maybe try to reach out but it's never works.
Huhm.
You don't need to push yourself too hard.
Some may just need time, some may be facing things you may not know, and some just want the distance. If you've checked in and they don't have a tangible reason for not reciprocating same energy... Just let go.
Well I did that a long time ago.
About them going through one or two everyone is going through something
I really hope we learn to love people genuinely for who they are and not just what they bring to the devil or what we can okay for them