Reflections on my Journey - Looking Back

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A life-changing move, after half a century of living in the comfort of our home in the evergreen valley, to higher ground, a stone's throw from the Valley of a Thousand Hills, was long overdue. That's becoming clearer as time goes on.
Yes, I did make time to get out and about, but not near enough.
I was becoming a bit of a hermit. Comfortable in my own skin, but neglecting the people who really matter. The B&B guests were coming and going, but making small talk with mostly strangers is not the same as spending quality time with loved ones.
I'm still living with my brother and his wife, kind of my halfway house, until my final move, which will be very soon, as registration is underway. Finally!
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My sister-in-law is a bird lover and has a couple of bird feeding stations, attracting seed and fruit-eaters. Part of their estate is right next door to conservancy areas, and close to the Krantzkloof Nature Reserve, so many bird species are seen, including birds of prey that fly close above looking for prey. Buck, especially at night, and small mammals like Dassies and Mongoose are regularly seen. The homes blend in with nature, and only indigenous plants are allowed in the estate gardens.
Their property is one of the highest, so it has fabulous views. Amazingly, on a clear day, one can even see Durban harbour, and the ships on the Indian Ocean, some 25 kilometres away, as the crow flies. Travelling by road to the harbour, of course, is longer, some 37 kilometres. I will be living right across the road from them, and that estate also has conservancy areas, with many bird species as well.
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Can you see the Blue-headed Lizard hiding among the Spekboom, also known as the Elephant plant? Small Buck love eating the leaves, so a low fence had to be installed to prevent that. The plant is valuable, can be eaten, is known as a carbon gobbler, is a low-maintenance air-purifying plant, can be planted indoors, and butterflies, birds, and bees love it.
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My two new furry friends greet me every morning, and Lily is always first. Crusoe loves burying himself under the blankets so I often get up before him on a cold morning. Temperatures are quite a bit lower than what I'm used to.
Lily gets so excited, looks like she's praying, asking for a tummy rub! Those little paws and tail are blurry in the photo because it moves so fast:)
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Crusoe is all cosy inside his blanket.
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The area has many restaurants, coffee shops, and quaint tourism spots; it is close to the 1000Hills Tourism Route. I showed them one of my favourite spots, Pilgrim's Rest Tea Gardens, which I shared two years ago; a place they did not know existed, and it's right on their doorstep!
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They, in turn, took me to one of their favourite restaurants, Mozambik, which offers Afro-Porto cuisine. I love seafood, and ordered Prawns, Calamari and roasted Vegetables with PeriPeri sauce.
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We also visited the new Westown Square, Shongweni, and had lunch at a Greek restaurant, Kalamata Kouzina. We were a big group, and with my sister-in-law's family at the table, I did not want to intrude, so I did not take photos of the food, which was delicious. I ordered Lamb Chops with roasted Veg (yep, trying to eat healthier). I did manage to snap a mural inside, where it was quieter. Most diners sat outside, because it was a beautiful sunny Sunday! We want to go back on a Friday or Saturday night for the plate throwing and dancing, traditional Greek style!
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I know we've all seen sunrises and sunsets galore, but I had to show you just how beautiful the sunrise is from up here. Two birds are sitting atop the roof with the sun like a red ball in the sky, waiting to break through and wake up the world around here.
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As you can see, I am very happy that I chose to move close to my 'baby' brother and his wife, and that I am very excited about the next leg of my journey!

Happy Weekend Friends!


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Your sister in-law was a bird lover and she has many feeding station for feeding birds was very heart warming and at the same time it was very nice passtime feeding birds.

It's lovely watching the birds and hearing the different bird calls. Thank you for stopping by @ronimarie82

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Living there is wonderful. With all the beautiful spots and nature surrounding♥️.

It is, dear Asia, I'm loving the big open spaces and all that nature offers💞

The beauty there is absolutely breathtaking. The landscape reminds me a little of the high desert in Arizona. I'm sure it's comforting having a pup there by your side. She's a cutie.

It truly is lovely living with nature at your doorstep. The other night when we got back in the dark, three buck were walking in the road inside the estate. Such a lovely sight! It's very brown at the moment but once our summer rains start, the hills will become lush and green again. It's been a very dry winter. Where I lived before, the plants stay green throughout the year, but here one can clearly see the difference in the seasons.
The two doggies are just so precious. We found the most loving home with a young couple on a farm for my cat. He is in seventh heaven, I get regular updates. Most of these estates don't allow cats! But, Poe is happy and still young.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend Eric🤗

<3 hugs to you, dearest @lizelle! these are some really great pictures to accompany your reflections - change is never easy, but I'm really impressed by the grace with which you are navigating it, as ever. Crusoe seems like such a fun doggo (and that spade is just superb!) :)

Crusoe is all real gentleman, and little Miss Lily a real madam, quite cheeky.
I'm very happy that I made the change, wasn't easy but I believe in following my heart (and a touch of common sense) and taking things day by day. We need to learn to live in the moment and not tackle all of life's problems in one day.
It's always so nice when you pay me a visit, I've been scarce, just popping in to drop a quick post, and doing some curating, so I've been neglecting my Hive friends. Hope you're well sweet @honeydue ❤️

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Wow! That place looks like a dream, especially with all of the wildlife around. We are glad that you will be close to your brother milady, and from here things can only improve. People say that a change is like a holiday, and I think that you will now have a permanent holiday 🙏

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Thank you my friend, it really is lovely up here, and yes, time now to enjoy what life has to offer. I'm getting spoilt rotten here, very blessed 😊

So glad to see this milady, and you definitely deserve much spoiling.

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Finally you have landed up in a peaceful and serene house ( or about to land), as I can see. I am sure, this will cherish your living in coming days, staying closer to nature and relatives.

100% correct @sanjeevm, I am so glad that I made the right decision. I'm certainly looking forward to moving to my final home. Thank you so much for the good wishes🤗

Now it looks you are finally having some long deserved fun Lizzie. Those wee pups look fun too!

Thank you Ed, my calendar's getting filled with fun stuff! The doggies both are real characters, one a real bitch madam and the other an utterly charming gent, both such sweeties!

hehe they sound like they are well suited!

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That looks like such a beautiful area you are going to be living in and I know it has to be nice to have your brother and family close in case you need a hand with anything. If you said it before, I didn't realize you were going to get to live close to one of your siblings.

I'm glad to hear it won't be long now too. Although it is hard work, it will be fun to get in your new home and decide where everything will go and begin to decorate and make it your own style.

What a delightful and inspiring post. Thank you so much for giving us such an incredible in depth view into your personal landscape! I worked n a Greek owned seafood and steak house for 5 years. No one cooks seafood better than the Greeks (Followed by the Portuguese of course!)

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