Its because everything was handed to them that they are looking for something that would make them feel excited. But what if, they were taught how to handle things on their own? What if there's no one to help them? I'm sure they will learn from it. But if it's easily handed, they will really take everything for granted. They will surely have a hard time once everything's taken from them. And for sure, that's when they will learn their lesson. I really think your mother should step up and teach them how hard life can be, while its not too late yet. But anyways, coz you know the struggles of life, i'm sure you can survive whatever is thrown to you. You have more strength too. And thats whats amazing when you have real life experience, all coz you decided to have a not so easy but fun adventure on your own ᕦ⊙෴⊙ᕤ
They certainly will learn from it. From the moment they were born to today, they were privileged. I know that our family isn't perfect but when it comes to connection and monetary privilege, we all had it. But it's such a slippery slope because if you don't understand what it entails,you'll get comfortable and will always see those above you thus feeling like you've never had enough.
My mother will never want to step up 😂 with her resources, she provides control and is able to shape her children the way she wants them to be. At this point, it is all too late and really, good luck to all of my siblings haha.
Even for me, life hasn't been easy and sometimes I wonder why I made it harder than I should but eitherway, I would not have known many things or even venture outside the comfortable life I might have.
I am happy though and writing this out, really reminded that the struggle I had was worth it.