I really like Mastodon a lot. It feels a lot like the early Twitter, back at the beginning when it was more like a group SMS and was small enough that everyone knew everyone else (kind of like Hive now). I like it much more than Twitter/X. On there people are just fighting. Twitter mobs are still a thing, and everyone else is screaming about politics. I despise it. Mastodon is much more friendly. It's also much easier to mute keywords on there, which is nice.
But yeah, you do have to find the right server. I am on a Japan immigrants server and we all talk about mostly Japan stuff. It's fun. I think Neoxian runs a Mastodon server.