Nothing can create, I think it's the same like I said before. Like if I have set my priorities for someone then anything they say I'll try to complete right? It doesn't mean they are the one guiding me, it means I'm allowing them and it's completely on me. But they will take it as they are changing me which is not true at all. We all do something for our loved ones because we want to.
So, from what you have said, will you say people don't change us but they can inspire us to change ourselves?
Not even inspire to be honest, I see it more as a conscious choice we make based on our own values and priorities. We choose to act because we care, not because they sparked a change in us. The decision and the power to change remain 100% ours.
The choice is definitely ours.....i'm liking the way you are putting this 😅but do you feel that our priority and values themselves can be shaped by those we meet out there?
They can expose us to new things but they don't shape us. The final filter is always our own mind. We decide what stays and what goes.
I think I agree with you on this cos exposure isn't the same as transformation. At the end of the day, we still decide what to accept and what to reject, even if certain experiences make us see things differently