I saw a question that says "Why do we enjoy complaining sometimes?" and I'm wondering if we actually enjoy complaining. 🤔
Personally, I don't enjoy it as I'm always in a bad mood when I do it.
So I'll ask.
Why do we enjoy complaining sometimes?
It made us get out of our own personal responsibility. Complaining lift our accountability to external factors that made us fail.
"we" I guess I'm not part of the we. I complian wheni don't like something but not always. Complaining is like expressing our reaction to something, but it must not be too much or overdoing it
Lol I also think I'm not one of the we. 😂
I do complain but not because I enjoy it, and I try to do it as less as possible.
But most complain are always too much.
It's human to complain, but when it is getting too much....that is something else cos I can't withstand it
However, some complain too much because they don't want to be held accountable for something
You're right, it's one of the habit of people who are looking for easy way out.
It's true, I've learnt to complain less and find a way out. There are things you can't fight against.
Sometimes complaining is just a way to get something off your chest. But sometimes it is a way of talking through a frustration, defining it in concrete terms by putting it in words as an initial step towards developing a solution.
That's some thorough definition of complaining lol.
But yeah, it's unavoidable at times.
How do complaining make things right? 🤔
Is there not a better way to make things right?
How do complaining make things right?
Basically, because if you're smart enough, you're going to start wondering about what's wrong in first place.
Hmm that makes sense.
But there are people who just go ahead to make things right without wasting time and energy in complaining about spilled milk.
I'd say that's smarter.
Complaining is not an obligation, and it should be a well-considered act so that it does not turn into a habit.
Yeah, I think that's where the question came from... People who have made complaining a habit, that's a bad place to be.
For real, I listened to someone say "If we spend our complain time showing gratitude for what's working, we'd have a better life". It's not easy but it makes all the sense. 😌
It's part of being humans but there's always room to be more of a gratitude person than a complain person. 😅
Okay I think we don't complain we just need a place to vent out our emotions and that leads to complaints.
That makes sense too.
If we don't vent, we'd store up emotions that won't do us good long term.