One of them I remember till today was a girl I always saw as someone from a rich home and I couldn't be friends with her because she seemed to have a bug lifestyle compared to mine.
Long story cut short, we got so close and it turned out she's just into the packaging lifestyle.
That's a perfect example of how appearances can be misleading. It's interesting that what looked like wealth from a distance turned out to be something completely different when you got close. I guess we often mistake confidence or presentation for someone's actual reality
Yeah, I do it a lot before. It's now I am trying to be less judgy when I meet someone for the first time or from afar before I get closer.
I like the fact that you are becoming less judgmental because sometimes that cloud shows how we relate to those people, and we won't get the best from them if they come with good intentions, but I don't mean you should lose guard 😅😂
However, do you think she was intentionally trying to project that image, or was that just how you interpreted her?
Some people are actually like that. Not really because they wanted to live a fake life but because they can't afford to be underrated.
Yeah and it's nice as long as its not at the expense of another person's downfall
She wasn't trying to actually, she just learned to understand herself early enough, had opportunities and used it well. I'm saying all this in a positive light actually, I admire her resilience in building a life for herself.
Lol not really, she's an industrious lady and building a life for herself.