..years that we've known each other. Sh either comes to me in church, online or anywhere we meet and playfully appreciate me or say something funny, that's how I'd too, and like that whatever issue or misunderstanding is settled and we continue to be our normal selfs...
Sorry is like very easy.
I can't was for malice to start before I will apologise never.
Whether I'm wrong or not I can easily say sorry and that's thanks to my dad.
But if I refuse to say sorry especially when I'm not wrong it's because the person stupidity has gotten out of hand, and I need him/her to understand and admit their wrongs.
I very well understand that.
That is so meee, people are starting to complain about it sef... They will be like, any small thing you've said sorry, any small thing you've said thank you...
It is well with some people Sha.
I offended my boss at work.
This woman said a lot of things to me that day.
I was just saying I'm sorry ma until she ask me to leave.
She came back later to apologise and explained she didn't mean everything she said. It was all out of anger and because she was pissed.
My point is, if I had approached with anger too the matter would have escalate.
Exactly...
Like, you would have continued to drag it and might have turned enemies by now. Reminds me of a fellow corp member who shouted at me some months back, and me as the president, I know what I can do, I just decided to keep my calm. A lot of people were expecting me to...
To call my LGI and report her, because honestly she was at fault. But I did not. I told her thank you for disrespecting me and our group in public, and sorry for asking you to handle this thing. It won't happen again... The second day she came to me DM to apologize...
And she added that she wasn't expecting that calmness from me, even though she knew I'm gentle, but what she did could have triggered something in me. But then, we were in a school and I just need to handle it the best way...