However from what you said, doesn't it also put the blame on the person who got hurt instead of on the people who actually cheated? How do you tell the difference between someone who kept attracting the wrong people and someone who just had bad luck?
I wasn't trying to blame anyone, cheaters are always the ones to blame but most of those who got hurt must have seen the signs but ignored it.
Sure💯 red flags often make more sense in hindsight. The difficult part is knowing whether they were genuinely obvious or only became obvious after the betrayal
Yeah, I just pray for those in the situation already to be wiser and those are lucky not to experience it to be wise too.
That is just it. Because anyone can fall into it no matter how wise they are
It's not easy to tell the difference but yes, there are those who just had bad luck.
I haven't, that's why I said I can't tell the difference. The question is for who have experienced it.