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RE: Snaps Container // 8/20/2026, 3:36:00 PM

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There are times when fear takes control in our life, a time when we feel like everything is not going to work out as planned, a time when we give up on ourselves just because we're afraid of things going the wrong way..

‎<It's something we all had, some of us even have that fear now, while some just live a nonchalant life. My great fear in life is seeing all my efforts on things I believe become wasted.
‎What was that fear that hunted you for a long time? and how did you defeat it??
‎ And what are your fears in life now??>
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It's the same for me.
I know there are season for setbacks.
But there are some setbacks that's very difficult to handle because of how much effort we put into what we do.
The best thing to do is to encourage yourself, learn from the past to fix your present

That's a good one, but there are some comeback that can take forever,not just because the person is weak to, but because the mentality of setback has affected him. Have you ever seen someone give up on something because of fear??

No I haven't but I have seen people who kept pushing no matter how long it took them.
It takes a lot of hope and courage.

☺️okay, that's cool..

👍

Everyone at one point or the other experience this. This is just life and we're just humans. And so having fear or being scared of if a thing will work out,go as planned and all of that happens to all of us.I pray your efforts won't go to waste&that you will always be victorious.

Pray so too.... So, what about you? Don't you have any fears?? 😁

Of course I do 🤣

😅😅

And erm, one thing I personally have come to notice is that, w shouldn't always give room for it. It will surely come, but we shouldn't dwell on it or give so much of a space. Once we do, and it gains ground in us, then most times we're bound to fail at that thing

Sire that's true 💯💯

Yeah 💯💯💯

For me, I had the fear of not living, like it just feels like I'm going to die, twas back then when I was battling with my health, and merging how I'm feeling then with the doctors report, it was obvious there's no hope, so it's either I die or continue to live with the illness.

Woo, that's a deep one and I can relate, I hope you're overcoming that fear...

Yeah, it is.
Definitely bro.. not totally though

Don't worry, you will overcome it.💯💯

Sure
Thanks boss 🫡

You're welcome sir ☺️

🫡🫡🫡

And I won't deny that I still feel that fear till today, but any time it comes I make sure to not allow it stay much more than necessary because it will always bring with it past experiences,pains and all of that. I just pray, take my mind off it, get busy & assure myself that...

..that I'm already victorious

Many people assume that some fears are valid and others are not and I think it's privilege speaking. We are all different, and thus, our fears will not be the same.

But it's important that we never let that feeling overwhelm us because like they say, fear is a sore mind killer.

Just like you, I'm scared of not achieving a certain goal in the next five years. Anytime I think of that possibility, I feel like shrinking.

But lately I've been fighting the negativity and promising myself to fight for my dreams. I hope you do too. I wish you all the best.

🤔, I have been doing so too, I pray we all achieve our short term and long term goals. Amen....

Fingers crossed!🤗

☺️☺️

SORE MIND KILLER,🙂I like that one. Thank you ☺️☺️.

Most times, it feels like people feel like they are not doing enough even when they are doing perfectly well. When you are not in the position you wish you were, you tend to feel like you're not doing enough while in actual sense, you're doing perfectly well

Fear is natural. However, how we face the fear is the most important thing.

True, what matters is not the challenges but how we overcomes them...💯💯💯 So, what's that one fear that when it clicks your mind, you will not be at rest for sometime?

You're moving a step at a time☺️☺️, but it's hard to know about it. It takes a clam mind to understand this. Have you ever thought like this before??

When I was still a child I always hear the being a failure I feared not actualizing my dreams I feel it I won't be my family would look at me and say they are not proud of me.

Hmm, I have never seen someone who's family is never proud of. But if they don't appreciate you, try creat your happiness yourself. Happiness really matters a lot.

Exactly creating my own happiness, it's very important to create our own happiness 😊

Yes,you garitt💯💯💯

So far so good my fear is not being able to provide for myself not being able to be a good mother to my kids not being a good to be a good wife to my husband. These are the things I look forward to and I do not want to fail in them.

Woo, I never thought about this becoming a fear, I thought mothers are the best or are you scares of having children?
You're becoming a good wife to your husband, he's becoming a man of your dreams and when you see such, hold him tightly.

I'm genuinely scared of childbirth and am genuinely scared of failed marriages a lot of things go wrong with their parenting and and I wouldn't want to be a bad mother or wife to my children and husband

You see, one thing I know is that when you're afraid of things, those things will definitely happen to you one way or the other. So it's best to always be positive. You just have to clear your mind, remove those negative mindset and keep on doing your best...

Being positive is very good.its good not to be negative.

💯💯💯

I saw hold him tight whenever he comes around

Yes, you should💯...

Thank you dear.

You're welcome 🤗🤗

Fear is that one part and parcel of life that just never goes away, regardless of the individual in question.

Both the young and old, rich and poor tend to have a phobia sitted deep within, serving as either a cautious guide or greatest obstacle towards the best decisions.

True words 👌

I have quite a number of fears myself; losing a loved one, being unsuccessful, and the list goes on and I try not to let any of them be the compass of my desired direction. 🥰

Woo, you really had lost of fears.
The one fear that is hard for me to overcome is the fear of not living my dream life. Although I have been able to conquer some percentage of it. I believe with time, it all goes away.☺️

It's just part of the life we live in. 🥲

That is quite justified. The thought of living a life in reverse to the one you envisioned for yourself can be scary.
That sounds comforting. Keep pushing!

Sure I will 😃😃